Thailand is a magical place, the beaches, warm climate, unique culture, great food and beautiful women. It's easy to see how a visitor in Thailand may think that he has found paradise at last. Every years, thousands and thousands of Western men return home from a holiday in Thailand wanting to return as fast as possible. Many times, the theorize for this is a woman, and more often than not it's a bar girl who has put a spell on him. Sometimes, everything works out and the consolidate live happily ever after, but in other instances, cultural differences and mistaken expectations lead to nasty breakups. Over the years, I've seen many Thai-Farang relationships. Those that lasted were commonly not those who began in a bar.
There's nothing wrong with meeting your Thai sweetheart in a bar, I mean, that happens all the time back home, but I think there are good reasons to be vary before entering into a serious association with a 'bar girl'.
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I am not one of those people who think that Thai women working in a bar are necessarily 'bad' or only out for money, far from it actually, but I do think that their lifestyle may gift some problems in the long run.
Picture this: A young, consuming girl from the countryside goes to work in a bar. She's never been out of the village before, let alone met any foreigners. Her daily life probably consisted of working in a rice paddy or falling asleep at some menial and boring job. Then she comes to Bangkok or Pattaya, with her head full of dreams and hopes. What she finds is a place where the neon lights are bright, every day is a party, drinking, sleeping until noon and then starting over.
For a young inexperienced girl anywhere, that kind of lifestyle has to be exciting. So, you see, when she meets you in a bar, is she precisely seeing to determine down with a guy who is often significantly older than her?
Even if she is, is she ready to leave the easy work and big money behind and start working in a 9-5 job again? Leave her new friends and be the perfect stay at home wife? Most likely not.
The bar scene attracts a confident type on both sides of the equation. If you're seeing for a nice Thai woman to determine down with and finally marry, then I suggest seeing elsewhere.
Take a walk down any street in Thailand; do you notice at least one girl sending you a shy look, maybe a smile? Maybe you don't, cause we as Westerners are not in tune with the subtle signals Thai women send to men they are interested in. Don't expect a 'good' Thai girl to make the first step.
Why I Don't Date Thailand Bar Girls
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